What is Holy Surrender?



Have you found yourself scrolling endlessly, looking for a dominatrix?


Maybe you have already found several. Maybe you have even had a few sessions. But you still have not fully committed to any Domme, and so you keep searching. Now it feels almost like you are searching for the Holy Grail, and you are not even sure the perfect Domme really exists.


But the truth is, you are not actually looking for perfection.


You are looking for a place, a space, a Domme with whom you can  be yourself and express all of your repressed desires and fetishes.


Maybe you have even tried to resist those desires, hoping that if you ignored them long enough, they would simply disappear. But they will not. They will not go away until you fully embrace them and release the shame around wanting to be submissive.
So if you have found yourself here, on my website, I invite you to pause.


Take a deep breath.


And on the exhale, let a sound escape your lips.


Let yourself drop out of your mind and into your body.
Feel what your belly says.
Feel what your chest says.
Feel what your desire says before your fear begins to speak over it.


You may feel excitement.
You may feel butterflies.
You may feel fear.
You may feel both.


That is a very natural response to the unknown.


So breathe into that place.
Acknowledge it.
Just feel it. 
And then ask yourself:


What would it feel like to finally be met in a space where I do not have to hide, where I can let go of performing, of holding it altogether all the time?
What men experience with me is the release of long-held shame in their bodies about the desire to be a submissive, the desire to be filled, and the desire to worship the Goddess. That will ripple in love and acceptance of oneself with greater levels of peace and feeling of aliveness that will reflect on their relationship with everyone around them, including their intimate relationships.