Men are meant to be submissive


Cross dressing has existed for millennia, you can see it in the Japanese culture as Kabuki where male wear female clothing for theater and this has existed in many other cultures. This is one of my favorite kinks to explore, and I would like to clarify some general misunderstandings about this and why I love…
In my work as a dominatrix, I have encountered both polarities (sadist/ masochist) and this has led me to reflect deeply on the nature of pain and on the desire to give or receive it.What I have witnessed in many of my submissives is that spanking and flogging make them feel alive. In those moments,…
This topic involves numerous layers, and I’ll do my best to present them concisely and precisely. As we know, there are three levels in the individual: the body, mind, and spirit. Let’s begin with the mind. Here, inheritance conditioning plays a role, where if a heterosexual man enjoys anal play, he’s labeled gay. Additionally, religious…
This is a subject that is not openly talked about by most men and not at all by women. Men have suffered sexual trauma as well as women. For most men, this starts as soon as a few days after they are born when they are circumcised. Just imagine just being born and being welcomed…
I was not always my own inner Domme. There was a time when I let my inner child run wild, reaching for whatever she wanted in the moment, like eating cookies before dinner, so to speak. She wanted comfort, pleasure, and immediate relief, and I did not always know how to hold her. So I…
We have been conditioned by society to see feminine expression as weakness. Expressing emotion is often seen as undesirable.Resting instead of doing is labeled as laziness.Even sayings like “no pain, no gain” come from a distorted, hyper-masculine standard that teaches us to ignore the body—to push through, even when something is wrong. All of this…